I told my granddaughters very young, sex was something to be enjoyed and used for your own pleasure and not for the benefit of others… I also told them their bodies were there’s and not someone else’s plaything…

That being said as an introduction into sex, how many lovers have you had and do you remember them all???

I have heard some people never have sex with anyone other than the person they married… I also have heard people have sex in and outside of that marriage, so I kind of wonder, why marry..??

I have also heard of other children being raped, other than myself and I have heard of men and women being raped in the military and I have had a taste of what the rich pull to get what they want, and it usually isn’t through legal chanels… But I digress…

Why didn’t I write about you???

I have had more lovers than I can count, do I remember them all… I think so… Can I name them all, not a snow ball chance in hell will that happen…

If you read the blog, if you don’t imprint on me, names are useless and face and body does ya no good… I been married to Homer 32 years and until he was diagnoised with dementia and I had to be acutely aware of where he was at… I walked past him in the store for over 28 years… and I am married to him!!!… (That is my brain injury in a nutshell, you don’t imprint, I am not going to remember you… PERIOD…)

That goes for lovers too… Thanks to the extensive amount of brain trauma I have lived with my whole life, my existence will never compare to yours or your reality…

My reality is a whole different world and it is exclusive, and the lovers found that out…

So, no, I probably won’t write about many of the guys, even those I have pictures of and names and rank and you get the idea…

They all have lives, just like I have… But that doesn’t mean I can’t talk about some of them…. (yea I am grinning)…

Having had so many lovers doesn’t make me a professor in sex or lovers, but after a few dozen, you realize…

Men are pretty much all the same and you aren’t…

Yes, I think back on those days of my early adult years when the brain injuries were trying to heal…

I was living life and putting my body through hormonal things that made my recovery even more interesting, if not exciting…

I am classic on my behavior for traumatic brain injuries… I am total text book on loss of inhibitions or constraint… It made being in the military a little bit more interesting… It made life a lot more spicey…

So, no, I won’t talk about the lovers… but I bet a few still smile once in a while…

I remember…

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