I can only imagine how many of you heard those words and were preparing yourself for what ever went on in your household… In our household… Those words meant…???

You pissed off Freda…

Nothing more, nothing less and it didn’t matter your age, till you became legal… If she couldn’t hurt you, she would send her boy toy, dear old daddy Don and he had no problem exhibiting his violence and his inability to control his anger… Case in point…

2004/5 at kitchen table and we are talking about medicare, insurance, etc and I’ll be honest, I been on medicare since 2001 and full VA since 98, so, not too much I didn’t know about the system and how it works…

So I challenge Don, now keep in mind, he has had sundowner’s since I was a little kid, as early as his late 20’s… and he had dementia, which is the reason we moved in 03 to be near him… Answer’s would start coming…

Anyhow, I started a mild disagreement and I watched as his anger built and all that time I watched Freda’s behavior… She knew, long before she got told, she knew he had dementia and she manipulated him for over 40 years…

Don’s reaction turned to anger and I backed off… and smiled inwardly… What I remembered was correct…

I constantly pulled psychology on all of the family and even the sister with a master’s in mental health, didn’t have a clue… Self awareness and critical thinking were my gifts from birth… Not there’s…

A lot of those moments in Arkansas between 2003 and 2010 just played before my eyes… Neuro was only partially right about my photographic ability… It’s still there, but it’s got a few jagged edges that keep me at bay… More work ahead on memory recovery…

So why the write??? Don’t ya like how I give ya back story???

I had a sister live with me… I had a brother live with me… I helped out a brother… I cared for a sister… and I gave my sons to the youngest for companions… and not one told me Freda was ill or dying, not one…

Freda used the wait till dad gets home from the time the kids got bigger than her and she was pissy and wanted to lash out and she, like Trump, wants you to think it’s someone else hurting you, when in fact… It’s really Trump and Freda…

So, when those words blasted on TV for some stupid thing that I trolled through, this is what happened…

I thought of all the things and help and support and love and sacrifice I gave to my siblings… and now…

Radio silence… and it has been since I told them to fuck off for threatening my life, raping my kid, stealing from me, lying to me and abusing me during Freda’s last days on earth!!!

So wait till your dad gets home has now turned into:::

Wait till Maggi gets her hands on this!!!

My anger is building as we get closer to the court date and I am doing good not ranting about it to Homer… He has enough without my little drama…

I have no incentive to give into anything they request…

They denied me the right to be by Don’s side and they denied me the right to be by Freda’s side…

They can go dance with their made up devil, because my foot is ready for planting up a few ass’s!!!

Guess who’s home???

I remember…

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