That’s Life….

What hubby & I are living through, is not unusual or different from any household all over the earth… our drama is no different than anyone else’s… just depends on what your values are…

Hubby an I have had this conversation multiple times over the last 10 years and the lack of desire on the part of the kids to be a part of our lives and when they are a part of our lives and ask for advice and it’s not what they want to hear… we get an earful, that would make man’s god weep…

Letting my dream go, I started that process in Arkansas… Freda made sure of that… and I had no illusions when we left Washington state, but I had hope, an that hope was not kept alive… it was allowed a slow death that culminated this week… good way to start off my 66th year on this planet…

At one time, our home was grand central… do you know how many visits we have had from our kids, since we left Washington??? 1 child……… in 18 years came to our home in another state….. 1………………

So I guess what they say, you cut the purse strings and remind them of the boundaries… it’s just easier to leave us out of the loop of life, because that way you don’t have to justify your actions to us… just a FYI, that is a christian behavior… just a FYI…

After I got jumped on by 1 grandkid, the rest decided, they could do the same… they watched their parents in action and figured they got away with it, so I get to go for the jugular too….

EHHHHHH!!!!!!!! Not so fast chickadie’s……..

You had rules growing up, those rules have only changed slightly and looking at the way our nation is headed… we can see, those rules had no value to begin with…. I’ve said it before, your lack of action is what gives you away… your friends an close family is worth the effort… we don’t seem to be…

That is one thing about psychology, I know it real well and use it all the time, on all different kinds of people and walks of life… the tool allows me to protect what is important to me… an gives me a very good insight into relationships, we never truly had and that is total honesty…

Our kids friends know more about them, than we do… an that isn’t going to change, because it takes too much effort to be human… christians cheat life…

Human’s live life…

Adorable Spite… accepting what is and what will be…..

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