Striking a balance….

Between the doers and the fakers… you either strike a balance and allow them into your world or you keep them on the outside looking in and give up that dream of striking a balance….

When hubby’s dad went through a divorce a couple years after we married… oh boy… we were renting his extra house, his RV was parked in our yard, but he wanted to retrieve belongings and needed someone to go with and be a witness, I got roped into it and I’ll never do it again and that should explain why neither hubby or I will get drawn into playing with the fakers in life… not worth it…

When hubby’s dad got remarried, I offered to pay for the trip to be at the wedding and hubby declined… we would meet the lady eventually… and when we did, the first thing I told hubby, she is a nurturer…. not knowing she had a degree in Mental health…

Hubby’s mom was in the hospital and again I was judged by hubby’s actions… so I give up… you yahoos can judge till your fictional hell freezes over…. Uncle…

My point of the write…. If you fake it, we are going to know and if hubby miss’s it, I let him catch up on his own… no need for brainwashing in our house, either you acknowledge it or you ignore it, with head up someones ass…

We as a people, human, can’t resist judging others, because we are so miserable with life… and frankly, that is exactly what I see, not sure about hubby… but it’s what I see…

Ya know we tried very hard with dad’s wife, not really knowing her or having any kind of real connection, but we treated her the way we wanted to be treated and that went down hill on a slippery slope so fast, our heads are still spinning… why??? Because she attached emotion to our actions….

She did, not us… she did…

It’s no different with hubby’s sibling… I read them long before we left Okanogan county an told hubby exactly what they would pull and low and behold they did exactly what I said they would… They stole… because they could…

Same goes for my family, our kids and grandkids… Emotionally we aren’t attached and that’s not from lack of me trying… but when they ignore the obvious, well I just bought sun glass’s to avoid the glaring contempt they have for us as elders…

No, we as a society are taught to believe the family is everything… and truly, that’s just a religious trap, so they have control over your whole family dynamic….

Yep, I may not have a degree in psychology, but brain washing is something so easy to pick out… that stick, keeping you at a distance, just became a 2X6…..

Social platforms are christian or religion based an as long as you are on them participate in them and decry us….

We will never be family…. just that simple… The red line has been drawn and the time has come to chose….

Face book and it’s corruption or us… Twitter and it’s degradation or us…. Tik Tok crossing over to the dark side or us….

It’s a simple choice… we chose us over the social media platforms…

There was a day, when communication meant something… now it’s how much can I lie and get away with it…

Fake is fake and we would appreciate, no more fake videos… If you can’t be who you are, we aren’t interested in the fake you on video….

Red pill, stay on the matrix of social media…

Blue pill, be part of our family and know it….

Mom, Grandma, Sister, Daughter, Veteran…..

Adorable Spite…

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